Got to understand my kids more than asking them to understand me

Falsetto with high volume voice is not needed when you are a mother.

This should be my motto every day – AVOID RAISING MY VOICE. I am not in the singing contest that I need to shout whenever my kids will do the things that I don’t like. They have feelings too and they need understanding even if they are misbehaving. I’ve got to remind myself about this that I do not need to copy or surpass the voice of my mother. I do not want my kids to experience the things that I experienced when I was young. I need to understand them more.